Expect the best
Once you have been hurt so many times in relationships by people who swore and promised never to hurt you and to leave you at any one
moment, your heart gets scared to get attached
to anyone again. It becomes so hard for you to
trust and love again, it can take you ages to believe in anyone who tells you how they love you and how they wanna spend the rest of their life with you, you can become so vulnerable, you
can hate love and a certain category of people, you can even say and think love does not exist in this world and you can wish to stay single for the rest for your life because of that trauma in you. But putting aside all those bad past experiences,
emotional pain, torture, stress, worries, fear, and
thoughts, the fact remains true love exists in this world. God gave it to us as a free natural gift. It’s within us and the societies we live in but it’s just very hard to find. Sometimes we ignore and we friend zone the
people who are supposed to be the love of our lives because of the fear of getting hurt again. And it’s so absurd that there no special or new words those people can use to convince us that they are different from the ones that hurt us.
They use the same words. If we still need love in our lives we have to be very keen and so observant. We have to learn to risk our hearts again because if we don’t we won’t get the
happiness and love we want in our lives.Everything is all about trying and in that trying it’s were we can find a right thing or person for us.
So, keep believing and hoping to love again, keep
thinking of getting married and having a happy family and home. It’s possible for everyone. God has a plan for everyone of us. But sometimes things don’t happen at the moment we want them because it’s never the right time. And that doesn’t mean they won’t happen, they will and
we shall all be happy, we shall feel loved and cared for again. Just keep believing and stay in
faith. Do things that make you happy, associate
with friends that encourage.
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